-Tiger, dragon and horse year girls should have their spouse’s hair removed at the age of 13, 16, and 18.
People talk in different ways about fortune-telling and wave-taking. There are those who consider it superstition. Then, we talked to D. Sainsaikhan, the astrologer monk of the Manba Datsan monastery of Helping Others Medicine, and the master of medicine, about the reason and influence of the marriage ceremony in Buddhism and astrology.
– If you want to live in paradise, there is a saying: choose a good spouse. How is the concept of a lucky partner viewed in astrology?
– People often ask about Zayaan’s spouse. They often ask questions such as “Is there a future partner for me or not?”, “Will I be married soon?” In Buddhism, marriage depends on the karma of the previous life and the events of this life. If you did good deeds in your previous life, you will meet a good spouse, if you did bad deeds, you will meet a bad one. It is unfortunate that people who come to ask, “Is my destiny partner available or not, when will I meet someone?” rely on hidden instincts and look for an easy way out. You may not be able to find a suitable person because you don’t know your true character, temperament, good and bad sides. Everyone is looking for a good person. But that person should see if he can be compatible with a good person. If you have a bad character and look for a good person, you will not find them. So, rather than a good person, you will meet someone who suits you. Depending on what kind of person you are, you deserve that kind of spouse. Instead of blindly hoping that I will be blessed with a partner, I need to correct and improve my own shortcomings and imagine that such a person will be suitable for me. When you meet that person, you will feel like meeting someone you know.
– What do you need to do to get to know yourself?
– It is very difficult to know yourself. It is rare to know one’s own good or bad qualities, except to slander people. Mongolians used to draw children’s horoscopes or children’s horoscopes. Everything about a person’s good and bad character and talent comes out on it. It is easy to get to know yourself by drawing a picture. Second, you need to look at your friends and people around you. As those people are, so are you. Once you know yourself, you should observe and correct your bad qualities and practice your good qualities. It is necessary not to see the shortcomings and bad sides of people. People who gossip always see the bad qualities of people. Bad things are hard to fix. Therefore, it is necessary to practice good qualities and see good qualities in everyone. Because everyone has good qualities to a certain extent, it is necessary to find them, respect them, and make them happy. Through that bridge of joy and respect, that virtue will flow directly to you. By developing good qualities, preparing yourself and getting to know yourself, you will meet your desired destiny partner somewhere. There are many cases where people meet their future spouse without realizing it because they don’t know themselves.
– What superstitions do people fall into when it comes to choosing a spouse?
– They come to ask, “Maybe I have my destiny mate” and “What kind of person is my destiny mate?” They even want to know the symptoms. It’s really pointless to ask that. Instead of getting to know himself and finding a suitable person, he immediately believes in superstition and determines the signs of his future partner, and looks for hidden and clairvoyant things that will meet him in a month. It is said that he should be a good person. This is superstition.