Hello all. After reading this site, I also wanted to share my experience with you. I am a 30-year-old man. Now, I have created a second life and I am trying my best to avoid losing it again.
I have a daughter from my ex-wife. The reason why my first life failed was because my ex rejected me because I was not suitable for him, his assets were not guaranteed, and I was inferior to him. I am not that poor, but it seems that he had more things.
No matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t overcome that person, even if I tried to at least not cry for my daughter. 3 years after this incident, I got together with a Chinese man and have been together for 2 years. He did not break up with his ex-wife on the grounds that he was in love with her.
Now, I have irrevocably decided to stay with my boyfriend, to end my relationship with my ex-wife, and to take my daughter with me.
I love the girl I live with very much, she loves me for who I am, I don’t measure life by money, let’s define it as the same level. He is a person who has the heart to love my daughter without hesitation, and because he himself has lost it in his life before, he is a person who hopes to be with me so that I don’t lose him again.
Now the main problem is my ex, who rejected me, and when he went to the court, he did unreasonable things and got back together.
From my side, I thought that he would try to fight with me because he won’t give up his daughter. I don’t want my daughter to grow up like that and become another girl whose life is measured by money. I sincerely want my daughter to grow up to be an intelligent woman who loves people as much as she loves people, who can be a good husband and a good friend. .
In Dashpam, I was told by everyone, including women, that it is better for girls to stay with their mothers. I don’t allow it. My daughter also doesn’t like to visit her mother very much. Her mother has been away from her since she was a child. A child over 7 years old can make his own choice.
Now the question is, have they not found the man of their dreams, or have they suddenly realized, or are they trying to get rid of me as soon as I am with someone else? Anyway, I know for sure that this person is coming back to bother me more.
The girl, who used to call me my husband, called me my husband for no reason at the court meeting… I will tell you that I really hate that person. Of course, I don’t think this girl is going to treat me and the girl I’m with now and not bother me.
But please give me some ideas on how to get out of all this without bothering my new life and my current girlfriend or daughter? Because of the girl’s crying and false testimony, the court decision and divorce has been postponed for 6 months.
For me, it would be a little better if this girl went all the way with her previous behavior and found another guy. Now I feel sick even to think that she is my daughter’s mother. I want to lead my current life without suffering from the mistakes of my past life. I hope you will share your thoughts.