I would like to share my thoughts with you on a problem that is happening to me. My husband and I have been living together for more than a year after we met. But recently my husband’s parents bought a house.
How much is the price of a room in the apartment? That’s why it seemed like it would be possible to buy a house in the first place and turn it into a house in a year or two. But my husband’s younger brother and his wife will live together in that small house. His younger brother is not a year old, but his wife works as a freelancer and has one child. At the same time as we bought our own house, his younger brother moved out of his mother-in-law’s house, where he was living temporarily. And he came to us with nowhere to go.
It is not known when they will have a place to live and separate, and how long they will be with such unemployed people, their husbands will have to wait and see. Even though I remember him, it is very difficult for me to live with such people, regardless of what we are standing on.
And spent a few days with his siblings. It’s strange because we didn’t get to know each other very closely before. And the two of them will show the same characteristics of unemployed and homeless people. As soon as there is an argument or quarrel with my husband, he immediately takes it upon himself and realizes that we are the only ones who don’t like him. There is no man to fight beside them.
Moreover, they have their own world and can be comfortable in their own environment. It is difficult for me, the youngest of the family, to be around them freely. It’s rude to think that 4 elderly people are living in a small house. From the moment you change your clothes, you will have a seat, and you can’t even sit next to your siblings. When I got married to my husband, our relationship deteriorated and we always fought because of his younger siblings.
Then I told my husband to talk to his parents and find a way to get them together. Compared to the two of us, the younger brother has been dating for 4.5 years, but he still hasn’t got a home. And he will not do the work himself, he will always ask his brother for work. My husband just hired his younger brother at his place of work, but he left after one day of work.
After his brother said a few words, his younger brother took his clothes and left. And now he’s been texting his brother, saying, “Is your wife happy that we’ve left?”
In fact, his younger brother is talking about building a house in this neighborhood and moving out. However, we have been thinking about buying this house for a year or two. One day, his brother’s wife started a big conversation and I told him about it. But his wife said to her brother, and since her brother will give her up in a year or two, it’s better to get kicked out now, so she’s been pestering her sister through text messages.
As if living for people. His younger brother’s aunt is clearly upset, saying, “The workers and I have not thought of a house for us until now, and we have given it to these two.” I would not like to stay in this house, which has opened the eyes of a person. I don’t know why, because of this seat, I’m constantly stressed. I am a self-employed, self-demanding person, and my views, which I have developed since childhood, do not wish for anyone to live a life that will not be bad for anyone, and I do not want anyone to come into my life.
This view seems to be in conflict with my current life. I don’t know how to solve this problem. Please share your thoughts.