I don’t know what to do anymore, so I’m writing to ask for your advice. I am a 23-year-old young woman. There is a lot of celebration because we will be holding our baby soon, but because of one problem, I have been very stressed lately.
I was still separated from my parents and I stayed with someone. My mother and father, who had just become students, were working day and night to pay for my education.
Poor mother and father are very sad. Now that I think about it, every word he said was always for me. A woman who shouldn’t drop out of school said that it would be difficult if she didn’t have a profession.
My poor mother and father have no schooling and have been living under human labor all their lives. Then the angry animal followed her husband.
At that time, he was a person who abandoned everything, such as school and culture, because he had become ji remsen. At first, she lived with her husband in a rented apartment.
Then the attitude towards me is completely different. The person who cared for me and loved me changed completely in one day. My husband, who does not work, was working alone, so I had to live with my husband’s family.
Since that day, my husband’s attitude towards me has changed completely. I felt bad for pretending to love you next to my family, but I didn’t say anything. Then he felt that he was an extra person in the house and he wanted to go to his parents, but it was really difficult to stay with him, thinking how he could leave.
I will stay with my mother-in-law during the day. Father-in-law, brother-in-law, brother-in-law have all gone to work. And my mother-in-law is the stepmother who appears on the same ashtray. Just lie down and tell me to do this, do that, cook this, go swimming, go to the store, and sell it.
At first, I obeyed everyone, but later I couldn’t do everything I was told, even when I bent down to wash the floor. My husband’s family is not very rich either.
Simple people living in the same neighborhood. One day, I was coming in with a 60-liter bottle of water in my big-bellied cart, and my husband arrived just before me, but seeing me, he went home to borrow my water.
I remember how sad I was at that time. When he entered, he immediately laid down without saying anything. I think it’s a lot of fun. My face, which had become a pillow full of lips, was burned and turned terribly red, and was thrown away. And soon my mother-in-law starts eating me with words.
In my time, my parents-in-law couldn’t even sit down, let alone lie down, but now these kids are unemployed, and they just get up and throw the dishes. I will prepare firewood and charcoal by fetching uncooked water. I started crying.
Then my husband left me and comforted me by telling me that we would separate tomorrow, but my mother-in-law took some dirty clothes and left my son, screaming.
I will not give up my time, thinking that I will answer back to those who say this to me, so I shouted that I have not seen people like you who have at least asked me as a bride or brought me home without officially asking my parents.
My poor father-in-law didn’t say anything to me. If my mother is silent, it’s your fault, how are people doing to your daughter, what can you do if you love other people and love your own, and then left after saying a few harsh words to my mother.
I packed all my things and moved in with my friend. My husband called me the next day and told me to come and find an apartment. We are living together now, but it’s the same.
I don’t want to go to that family again. It’s like going to think about my father-in-law. I don’t want to think about my mother-in-law. Please advise me..