I am writing this because of financial problems. I am 32 years old and live with my wife and daughter. Representation of many young families who work in budget institutions and lease apartments.
My wife has just given birth, so she stays at home to see her daughter. My salary is not much, but I think that somehow I will pay for it. I have never begged anyone for money.
The problem is that I can’t give even a penny more to my retired parents. Both of my parents have been teachers all their lives and now they are both on merit leave, they have a nice comfortable apartment, and they get a lot of papers for pension.
I have 2 younger siblings, male and female. When my sister got married, my father bought a 2-room apartment in a new neighborhood. But when I got married and separated, my wife and I were a family with a broken heart.
My father likes to drink black water, there’s no way he won’t drink if he has enough money, my mother is addicted to shopping, it’s been like that since we were little.
My mother used to think that a teacher buys clothes to look good. Collect a lot of garbage.
Most of my salary goes to the housing loan, I really can’t give more money to 2 old people even if I try hard. Lately, my mother has been busy with her low-paying job, and she has been busy with her father’s work.
They don’t directly ask for money, but the tone of what they are saying is like that, their children are helping their parents with money, and they are paying off their debts.
I gave it if I could, but I’m working hard to finish the home loan. In fact, if the pension of my parents is enough for only two people, they take a lot of money, it is too wasteful.
It seems that my younger sister does a good job and gives a lot of money to her parents, maybe because she bought a house when she got married.
My younger brother is a student, a happy animal who doesn’t know anything, and he seems to take care of my younger sister. There are many old people who think that they should take it from their children. Or am I thinking wrong?
Sometimes I feel depressed. Being the eldest of the family, the woman is less than seven years younger than her brother and cannot give money to her parents.
What do you think about it? Are there guys like me? How and in what ways do the young people with housing loans save money?