I thought I would write here about the difficulties of my life and hear your opinions. I have 2 children, and my wife died of an unexpected cancer 6 years ago.
When we were two children, we met through an innocent love affair, got married and had 2 beautiful sons and daughters, and this happened to us when we were living happily.
Since then, as a single father, all my work has been dedicated to my children.
But no matter how hard a man tries, he realizes that he cannot fully give his children the love of a mother. Also, I myself began to want a family atmosphere where the love of my spouse is complete.
At this time, I met a girl and lived with him for 2 years, but it seems that he remains alone again. At first everything was fine.
At first, he was very good at talking and playing with our children, but he was like that after we started living together.
Also, he used to show up every week, but now I’m a friend. Also, when he is at home, the help of a woman is less, and he is like a single man.
Is there a housewife who jumps in and cleans the house once or twice a month?
Because of all this, he went to his parents. My children call me mother and address me as mother. They didn’t know about it because they went to their grandmother’s country during the summer holidays.
We have many differences, but I love him. The main thing is that my children write poems and draw pictures for her saying that she is their mother, but why does she not remember that person in all their dreams.
After he left, we talked to him many times, but now he went out, and there was no reply.
I can’t tell my children that their mother left them. The reason is that I can’t be as free as I used to be when we’re together, the kids will grow up and they won’t like me.
He said that he cannot be free as he is here. What should I do, I don’t want to make my children suffer again. Please feel free to share your thoughts.