Hello, I would like to wish everyone who is reading my letter a good day and give them valuable advice. I am a 26-year-old housewife living with my husband and two children.
Well, let’s get straight to the question. My mother-in-law is looking after her daughter’s child, who is not with us at the moment. When I go to work and show my child, I can’t take care of my daughter, who is tired, because one of her daughter’s children is the same age as ours, only one month older than our son.
I was born a month after the birth of her daughter, so when I left the hospital after giving birth, the terrible oil that was used to heat the bone broth that I had cooked the night before floated away. And my stomach was full for several days, even my son felt uncomfortable. Then, as soon as I came out of the hospital, they heated up a soup with oil for one night and then left in a hurry saying that it’s okay, my daughter is having trouble.
And her daughter’s eldest child is 7 years old, and our eldest is only 3. I carry my son in my arms and carry my daughter to kindergarten, but you say it’s okay and it’s not possible to carry my daughter to school unless it’s difficult. To make matters worse, when my mother-in-law came, I was lying down trying to nurse my son to sleep, and he went to sleep with me.
In March, my 2 children were admitted to the hospital due to colds, and my mother-in-law came to us as a person to make food and tea. We came to our house because it is close to the hospital. So we sent my father-in-law to the hospital to tire him out. We will make food and drinks, and we will lay on the bed in the big room.
After that, I cook and eat my own food, and then I cook the dinner for my husband and mother-in-law, and then I take my 2 children to Nepal. I don’t seem to understand how to tell my husband about this. In the evening, as soon as my husband comes in, there is a very tired person who has made food and tea and falls down from exhaustion.
Well, my father-in-law is one such person, and now, as soon as his daughter’s children are born, he will come and live with us in a few years, and he will come and live with us this time. I don’t want to bring my daughter to school because she’s not tired of taking children to school. When I was with my daughter-in-law, I was only a servant, I only cooked her meals and cleaned the house and took her children.
After selling it to my daughter, I feel sorry for my mother-in-law’s bad behavior. The neighbor told me to sell both of her sons, and as soon as I went there, she blew her nose and thought about it. is
And at least when we were at home, the child was taken to sleep while I was doing things, and it was a day when I was cooking and doing things, and my son was crawling when he was crying. there is.
If I don’t believe in telling my husband, he will think that I hate his mother. My husband seems to think that he can help me by doing things at our table, just like how things are at my mother’s house. How can I make my husband understand that I can’t stand his mother being like this?
When I told her once, she would say, “Wait a little longer, mom, what’s up?” My husband and I don’t get along well. However, if my mother-in-law really lives with us, I will go out to my husband the same way I did.
And when my husband comes home from work, I like to open it, and my husband keeps asking if I’m okay. Well, how can I make her husband understand that her mother is like this and tell her that we can’t be together comfortably?
