I am writing to hear advice and ideas from women like myself. I am now 31 years old and have 2 beautiful daughters, the eldest is 7 years old and the youngest is 4 years old. It’s been 3 years since I divorced my husband.
After leaving, he comes to the city to do some work, and he also studies on the side. It still hasn’t found its footing yet. I hope it will be better in the future. My parents take care of my two daughters.
Whenever I have free time, I go to visit the 2 girls. I started dating a guy from my workplace a year ago, but we broke up in the middle and we are still friends. But now I want to stop.
He is from my generation, he is also single, and he loves me, but since I have 2 children, he must be having a day where he cannot make a proper decision.
Even though I love this guy, I think it’s better to end things and walk away because I’ll only choose my two children in the end. No matter how much they love their mothers, will men have the strength to love two human daughters?
Now that I know he’s skeptical, should I just hope he’ll change? I think that it must be difficult for a person who has never started a family to suddenly have 2 grown-up children.
I’m just a person who thinks things will work out. In fact, I really want to have a good family and live peacefully with my two daughters. I feel like I’m wasting my time by tying up this guy without letting him go.
If it were my way, it would be fine for two people who have reached 30 to build a fast life together. In the end, they would know what to think, and they wouldn’t even know right from wrong. Please help me what decision should I make?
People who have spent 1 year in this way will spend more time now.
He said that his family would hate him for being friends with a man with 2 children. But I prefer my boyfriend’s decision.
But my boyfriend left without making a proper decision.
