I am a 30-year-old woman with a husband and children. I have never met a man other than my spouse, but I like a man very much, and I love him.
But I didn’t tell him that I loved him, and I wouldn’t tell him in the future. Just by beautifying myself, even a person’s mood changed and it gave me energy to think about him in my secret heart.
I told a close friend about my secret love and this small pain. He talked very fondly without reprimanding me, saying that if you are in love, you can’t get caught, meeting one by one makes life more interesting.
Almost 2 years have passed since then, and she kept thinking about him, talking about him with her friend, after getting married, about her quarrel with her husband, and her in-laws told her all the delicate secrets that women talk about. All the things like the fact that you can’t let go of an intimate relationship. But recently, after a fight with him, he behaved strangely.
And then, I know you, you know what to do with me. I was shocked and thought how terrible it is. Then she called my husband on the phone and told me all the secrets I had been talking to him about, even the love I was hiding inside, about him, about the husband I was talking about during our intimate relationship, and about my mother-in-law. I didn’t expect my friend to treat me like that.
Of course, my husband proposed to divorce me, he loved another man and you were insatiable, but what should I do with you now?
What do we children talk about with our female friends? My in-laws are very strange people.
I think a little bit. She also goes out with other people and talks about different things than me, but I will never go to her husband and tell her after a fight like her. I’m in such a difficult situation and I don’t know what to do.
A friend is an enemy. Now, if I tell anyone about my pain, I will tell it to a friend, and he will come back to me. Women don’t need to open their secrets and tell anyone, it’s really scary.
I couldn’t say anything to my husband and sent him away, but I hope he will understand and forgive me because he is a smart man.
It’s common for everyone to lose control of their emotions, so I didn’t try to talk to him. If I had met him, he would have said that and put me in a difficult situation. This apartment is mine, I bought it from my parents and with the money I saved. So, my husband left for 5 days and didn’t talk to me or my child. I didn’t even call him. He called me and I don’t know what to say. Please give me some advice.