My name is S. Now 21 years old. My husband is a nice guy, a good guy, and he understands me very well. We both have the same thoughts and think the same. I started dating my husband in 2016 when I was 16 years old. We studied in the same decade. I accidentally fell in love. At first, we just held hands and just made love, but later I became more and more attracted to him and fell in love with him more and more.
I got pregnant in the 11th grade, and after thinking about it, I took my child. I became a student. Exactly two years later, in the spring of the 1st year, he was out with a girl from his school and asked me about it. At that time, I felt as if the sky was falling. But I did.
For some reason, the real behavior of a man is felt only after 2, maybe 3, 4 years. I went to a different school and saw a different girl and thought that he would think differently. Next year, in the spring of the 2nd year, he will change his behavior. I pretended not to cry and was in a lot of pain. In the end, he ran away from me…
Then I suddenly thought that I needed to change my life, and now I cut off the relationship, separated as I wanted and became an arra. I got another boyfriend, spent the summer together, and the heart that was in pain began to heal naturally.
After 2 or 3 months, he began to approach me and asked to see me. I thought that it was useless to me now, so I drew it and scolded it to disappear. When I think about it, it seems that for some reason, men feel tired when men pay all their attention to them, take care of them and say only you.
On the contrary, it’s very strange that he chased after me, ignoring him. That’s how he ran after me, and we met occasionally for 2 months. Besides, I met other young people and it was such a strange time.
Even if you want to stop, there are times when couples take a break, not just when they are dating. In the winter of the 3rd year, he was dating a girl from the upper class of his school. When he was with me, he sent a message and the other girl started crying. In the spring, I talked to his daughter on the phone and thought it would be over, so he left.
But after a month, he called me and asked me to give him another chance, and he promised not to try again. After thinking for a long time, I agreed and we have been together for exactly one year and 4 months without any problems. To my daughters, this is my opinion…
Men will meet other girls and compare you with them before making their final choice. My husband was traveling with 3 people and he told me that it was too many. But I’ve been there more than that, so I didn’t think about it.
I was reading that as long as you give them another chance, nothing will fall from you, but you will promise yourself that a man will not make such a mistake again. Now I am waiting to become a mother very soon.
My husband is the most precious thing to me. Because we have overcome a lot of things in these five years and we are finally together, and because out of many men, I believe that this is the only person who can become my lifelong partner, so I decided to sit with him.
I believe that he will not try to romance me again. I think that I have learned a lot by being given the opportunity. I wish you success. I think that a good spouse is a gift from God. Make the right choice because it is your spouse forever.