I am 26 years old. I am writing to you to ask for your advice on a problem I am facing. 3 years ago, when I was a student, I met a guy over the phone while listening to FM. He spoke very intelligently and felt cool.
But when we were in a relationship for a while, he told me that he was in a relationship. At first, I was afraid to interact. But I talked to him because he was very intelligent and funny, and because he was lonely sometimes.
Time flies, now we have been in a relationship for 3 years. During this time, I have been working after graduating from school. But I don’t have a husband yet lol. We met a year after we met. He was out of work.
Then he said he wanted to see me, and I wanted to see him, so I went to see him where he works. How scared I was when I went to meet without thinking about anything. Everything is under security until our meeting.
But I wasn’t afraid, now that I think about it, I wonder how brave I was to go. It’s because I always treated him as if he didn’t belong there. During the 3 years, it was said that he was doing various jobs here and there and was always going out.
We met almost 3 or 4 times. In the end, it was like visiting a good friend whom I knew. I even went to their open house once. He just wanted to know what kind of place it is. But I always went alone.
Because no one knows about it. If you tell your friends or family, you will be fired. The main problem with writing the letter is that he is going to be released from prison in July. Then he goes out and sits with me, he always talks about how much he loves her. What should I do?
I am still in touch with him because I sometimes talk to him to give him emotional support. But I tried without connection. No matter how hard I try, I call my work and find a number.
It seems that the fact that I don’t sit down with someone is also related to this person. He told me so himself. It’s like saying, “Talking to God and keeping it to myself.” I don’t know why he joined, but he is a very smart talker, has beautiful dreams, and is a nice guy.
But it’s hard to think that he has done anything in such a place. He also said that a person who enters such a place does not fix it because of whether it will break. If you sit down and act like you were in that place, what if you don’t sit down, you will come to work.
I am afraid of all this. But he is not such a terrible person, he is kind, kind and humble, and has a gentle and gentle disposition, and it is seen that he respects women. But I’m afraid. Now that it’s almost out, it’s a strange feeling, like being happy and afraid. What should I do?
