My name is E and I have been living with my husband of 25 years for 3 years. We have a beautiful 2-year-old son who was born with all our good things, and soon his younger brother will be born. Yes, I’m a pregnant mom lol.
I’ve been feeling down a lot lately. For some reason, I can’t seem to be the same house deer after giving birth to children for years. In fact, with my first child, I was busy and demanding, and I started work only after my child was 6 months old, and on the side, I was studying at the second university.
At that time, my mother took care of my child, and I was a workaholic who left my son in completely reliable hands. But soon after my brother’s second child was born, my mother took over.
Of course, there is no one to take care of my son, and he is our father. After only a month or two, my son lost weight and started to become overweight.
And at that time, my husband said that my husband should quit his job, stay at home to look after our son, and his love is that you can support both of you, and on top of that, I was under stress that I could not match the same work style with the new director.
Then I decided to go out at all. After applying for unemployment benefits, I still had an income at that time. Soon after, she became pregnant again while working as a housewife while clinging to her son.
A person who is studying in another planet’s class but has no source of income, pulls his bad spouse and increases tuition fees on top of that, and at least this year, he has an insurmountable fee.
Well, you can learn by paying. The most important thing is that my husband and I talked about getting a loan in the last stage of our business. And he decided to leave school.
The only thing to strive for now is to start a business and get back on your feet. On the other hand, lately I’ve been getting frustrated with the feeling that I’m regretting everything I’ve done or left behind.
Soon, I will be accepting a new person after the end of the year, and at least I will have to spend another year with no income and nothing to contribute to my family! Again. It seems as if all the youth have passed by and the friends with whom they were together are developing more and more.
Then he dropped out of school, but right now he is looking for a master’s course to graduate from a good school. Please advise me how to help my spouse and get rid of these stressful thoughts.