Hello. I live with my 27-year-old husband and son. My husband and I are considered to be very lucky in the eyes of others, and people tell us the same. My husband is very caring, always tells me that he loves me, and has dedicated everything to this day as if he was born just for us.
He is a good guy who doesn’t even look at me harshly, and doesn’t look at me with anger. Consider yourself very lucky to have met such a person. But there is a big problem between us, even if there is no quarrel. This is intimacy. It’s been two years since we had such a relationship. After the first pregnancy, she did not even approach her child for eight months after birth.
I thought that I was laughing just thinking about my wife’s body, but until now, I have not made any progress, but I am still in a dormant state. If you keep it yourself, you will feel it only once every three to four months. He wants to do something like that, or if he wants to go to the hospital or a psychologist to talk about this problem, no matter how calm he was before, he immediately starts to get angry. And then the crying turns into a fight and despair. At first, I stopped telling him and waiting for him.
Thinking about my wife and loving my husband very much, there is no such thing, but it has been two years since I was able to get married through others. During these ten years, he probably had an intimate relationship only once. Every time I visit my husband, I have been friends with him since I was a student, and I still work with him in the same company. He understands me better than anyone in my life, better than any of my friends, and he can advise and listen very well.
If you just sit and talk with him, you don’t know how long it will be. My husband and I know that we are close friends, we are friends with him even before we met, so we don’t get suspicious. but we are very close, we talk about everything, but we don’t talk to each other.
That friend knows that it has been two years since my husband and I have had such a problem, but I usually talk about everything. To that extent, I believe in him. That friend of mine is a young man without a wife. But recently, even though I didn’t think about it before, I started to see the man from all sides. My friend, who was thinking about such things and looking at it from his male point of view, was going without knowing it. However, no matter how hard I tried, I was unconsciously attracted to him, and if he wanted to look at me, I wanted to hug him right away.
I myself know very well that it is impossible to speak and think about doing such things. But in the last few months, it has become more and more difficult for him to suppress his desire, he can’t control himself. What should I do? Maybe I should cut off my relationship with my male friend, change my job and live with the feelings of a male person for the rest of my life.
It seems that unless you distance yourself from him, you can’t stop thinking about him when you are with him. Or should I tell him what is going on in my heart and get the feelings from him that I can’t feel from my husband? I don’t even know how to solve this problem of my husband. When a pregnant person doesn’t normally do such things, he is too thirsty and thinks about such things. Feel free to share your thoughts…