It is now 20:00 on 31.12.2021. I have an interesting thing that I want to share with you. Let’s write as briefly as possible. My name is Etugen and I have a 24-year-old wife. This story started 2 years ago, I was attending a language course.
At that time, I had been living with my husband for 3 years / now divorced/. Then I started to get used to it. My teacher had a wife and two children at that time. I fell in love with him even though I knew that he had a wife and children. Once we were on the sidewalk and had a conversation.
We didn’t say good things to each other, but I felt like his eyes were on me. After that, I started fighting at night… I wanted to go to the language course as soon as possible, but actually I was going to be with him, not to learn the language, but to see him.
I studied the language for a long time, almost 2 years. Then one day, I left the language center. After some time passed without meeting, my teacher told me that he joined another language center and I started studying there.
But his wife saw us and caused a problem because I sent a message to her phone. At that time, nothing happened between us, so after a while, I lost my temper.
After 1 year, my teacher told me that he had divorced his wife and proposed to meet me. The next meeting was on the New Year’s Eve of his language center. He called me and said he wanted to meet me.
Even though it was 12 hours late, he came to my husband’s house saying that we must meet. And then we both fell asleep at the hotel… It was a really good dream, and I whispered to myself like a cup of tea, staring at him, I wondered if I was dreaming or if it was real life.
Because I left my husband behind for the first time, that day my husband had gone to work in the countryside. No one knows about this, but since then I haven’t met my husband. I just called to say Happy New Year, but I hung up the phone…
He said he loved me too, but I want him to go back and live with his wife. It’s scary for me to be orphaned, because I myself grew up without a father, so I don’t want those two little children to feel the pain.
As for my husband, he is a good guy who loves me very much, but sometimes he is an alcoholic, he comes in drunk almost every day, sometimes he doesn’t come home overnight, I lost my faith… I wonder if I will die with such a person… Now he wants to divorce me even though he doesn’t have children. We are breaking up after saying…
What should I do now? It has been 5 years since my husband and I approved our marriage and we have no children. He asked me not to drink again, but this is not the first time, so I don’t want to give him another chance…
My teacher once suggested that both of us live abroad. I don’t know what to do anymore, so I wrote a message to all of you, instead of being happy on this New Year’s Eve.
I’m sorry if I wrote it badly. I’m sure you will love your valuable advice, if anyone has had the same experience as me, please give me some advice…
