I will tell you about an incident that happened to me. 4 years ago, my husband stopped staying at home after drinking alcohol.
My name was crying and chasing after him. My husband used to start a fight at every step and leave after crying. After 1 year in this way, I found out that I had a secret pregnancy while trying the phone. “Who am I?” The thought entered my mind and I wanted to cry and die.
“What’s missing, why?” I kept shouting and my husband didn’t want to say anything. Then I threw everything out. But I made a mistake and ended up living in another country. I just lay at home for a few days. She refused to talk to anyone and thought that she should forgive her husband.
Because I got married to love that person for the rest of my life. And I thought about my life and learning to walk. After hanging around and selling clothes, she invited her husband to her house and met the other woman. “But your husband will never leave me,” she said proudly.
After he said that, I began to take more care of myself. I took the baby to my in-laws, cut my hair, wore looser clothes, and talked to friends I’d lost touch with. At the age of 25, I had a baby, but when I looked in the mirror, I was still a young hot girl.
She changed the furniture of the house, cooked different kinds of food, chose colorful clothes for her husband, changed the bed sheets, and did everything that could be changed in the house. But my husband comes home a little earlier. Dress up your child cutely and go out in the evening together.
At first, my husband didn’t care, but every time my younger brother ran after him, calling him daddy, he became more fun and started playing together. After all this, my husband changed his number and even cut off contact with her.
When I finally thought about it, my husband was tired of his wife’s monotonous life and boring words, so he didn’t feel his own space. Besides, sitting with a woman, he puts aside all the new things that he puts aside, such as husband and children.
Men, on the other hand, strive to find new things and feel their worth somewhere. But now, my husband, who is in my life, is always smiling, and happiness has returned to my house. I try to start life anew every morning.
My husband realized that he is the master of this life and a part of this family, and realized how important family is. We are waiting days for our second child. Even then, my life will begin again. Ladies, love men gently but wisely.