Gone are the days when your phone only received messages from Unitel and Mobicom, and now you are constantly sending chats to your messenger and calls to your phone.
The person who makes you happy may share a passionate love story of a couple on his social media page, write posts that say “a woman is a god”, and you may scroll through them and think how romantic and caring he is. Nowadays, the “new way” of starting romantic relationships through social media is gaining momentum. But it is said that the destiny partner is on the way. There are people who find their destiny here.
Who is that person who is bothering you? Maybe he’s the SUPERMAN you’ve been waiting for, just like his words and actions. On the other hand, it cannot be denied that “GUMP” wearing a Superman mask is also present. It takes mind as well as mind to continue a relationship once started.
Because the person you are meeting now may become your lifelong partner with whom you will have breakfast together and walk home hand in hand in the cool of the evening, on the other hand, you should actively research and get to know guys in order to find out what kind of guys you like and what you want from men.
But getting to know a person is not easy. Even after living together for five, ten, or twenty years, there are many families who do not understand each other’s behavior and have a bad relationship because the husband and wife do not accept each other in some respects. That’s why it’s important to know the person you’re meeting well, considering the risk. How? Don’t worry.
1. First and foremost, be yourself – Don’t think about who the guy is, what he does, whether he meets your requirements, etc. But be free yourself and see if you can be at ease around him. At this point, your intuition will give you the right answer.
2. Listen to your heart – Now think about your longed-for prince on a white horse. Then compare it with him. How many percent match. Is there something that has mesmerized you even though it’s less than five percent? Or is it just like that, but you are not excited about it? Then just follow your heart. Princes on white horses are also weak.
3. Don’t take your friends’ word for it – Don’t take your girlfriend’s word for it when you look at his picture and say, “He’s a really cool guy, date him right away.” The guy they are interested in is different from you. On the contrary, it’s the same as saying, “What a wonderful young man, you’ll find something good in this, stop it.” Remember that ultimately you will make the choice, not them.
4. Collect information about him – After dating and living in the same house, it is not impossible that he has habits and traits that you don’t like or even can’t see. It is not necessary to ask him and test him in any way. And it’s not necessary to leave everything to the future because it just takes time. In the end, it’s good if you can appreciate and support his strengths regardless of his shortcomings. If not, think again about your relationship.