Hello all? I have been married to my wife for four years. I’m going to write down all the details of my life just to get advice from all of you. It’s been a long time since I found it myself.
The reason is that my wife is too unemployed and lazy. Being at home and not working is a little too lazy. I’ve tried many different ways to fix it and so far I haven’t been able to get any decent results.
That’s why I’m writing here to ask for advice. When we were dating and meeting for the first time, I didn’t know about it, and I probably fell in love without even realizing it. And from the moment they entered the same house, they started to recognize each other.
Now the food in the house will always stink and you have to throw it away, and the refrigerator will also stink. There are things to eat and drink that have dried up and become moldy. I often say that I have collected food from the store according to my needs.
After all, they don’t pay attention to what people say, or they don’t even want to understand it. To eat, not to eat, to take a lot of unnecessary things, spoil them, and then throw them away and clean them up. If I don’t move, unwashed clothes and dishes that have been eaten will stink and flies will fly over them.
In the beginning, I used to go back and forth, drumming on my palm and running around cleaning. Now there is no tea when I wake up in the morning and no food when I go home in the evening. As a single guy, he has been managing everything by himself for the past few years.
I don’t want to divorce and orphan my son because of such a minor problem, because I gave birth to my son, who is too cute to say the least. But when people hear it, it seems like a small problem, but when you face it, it is a big problem in life.
If he divorces me, my wife will probably start a family with someone else. And I feel sorry for him, thinking how the poor man will be killed because he is lazy and unemployed.
Because of this problem, I feel like my love for him has cooled down, and I keep denying him little by little, and I don’t know if I love him or not.
I feel sorry for how she will live if we divorce her, and I have been living with it until now, just thinking about my beautiful son. People may be surprised and curse me if they say that their love has cooled because of such a problem.
But to think that I have lived like this for four years and will continue to live like this for the rest of my life, I can’t believe it. It’s not like seeing the wives of friends and neighbors.
In most families, the wife does the housework, or even husband and wife share the work. Now I’m really tired of housework and quarrels over food and drinks.
People may think that it is a problem that can be solved after a good discussion. I tried to talk a lot, I tried to fight, I tried to compete, but I was fine for the first three days, and then I went back to my idle and lazy way.
On top of that, just sitting at home and watching your child will cause colds, poisoning, and diarrhea all the time. When he wants to go to the doctor, he always disagrees with me and takes advice from Facebook groups and people who know a lot, which makes my son even worse.
Some people who are reading this may be thinking that why can’t I do the housework and make food and drinks myself, I have to watch my wife’s hand. After entering a house, I go out as a man and enter the house as a woman.
So please don’t misunderstand me. Like other husbands in the family, I just want to watch TV and lie on the sofa. I’m so tired of constantly cleaning the floor, cooking, washing clothes and dishes.
I don’t know how to live such a life, it seems that it was my fault that I pampered her too much from the beginning and taught her bad behavior.
Even though it’s a weekend, he says he has work, and after coming to work, he doesn’t even want to go home. How can I fix it? Maybe a lazy woman fixes it. Please give me some advice ladies and moms…