Hello, my name is C. I am 25 years old. I have been married to my husband for 3 years. I recently had a child. 3 of us live in my parents’ house. I am the only child in the family.
That is why my parents will not separate my husband and me. In fact, even if we both rent a place where we can work reasonably, we can go separately.
It’s like renting a rented apartment, getting a flat, and leaving separately. Lately, my mother has become very jealous of my husband behind her back.
My husband’s family has a difficult life. It seems that he is even more excited after knowing that. Of course, my husband also noticed that, so your mother always complains to me about this and that.
As a mother, at least one thing is that they always scold me, of course, I always defend my husband. My mother will try to keep me at home all the time so that my husband can do the housework. Imagine that sometimes you watch for me when it’s late.
In general, my mother is a very strict person. Sometimes I wonder how I could become a human under such a person. As my husband is a man, I can see that it is really difficult for him to live with his in-laws like this.
The dream of my husband and I is to separate. my husband says I am enduring here only for you. If this is the case, it will make my mother and husband a hopeless soul without any self-confidence.
Of the other mind, we are both very selfish. Both of them earn the highest salary in today’s society and do nothing. you just finish it. From now on, I’m the only one learning to play.
My husband is a white-washed spendthrift who has never seen such a life, so he thought to himself that he should have a little bit of life here. My thoughts may be the same.
In any case, if we are extravagant in this way, we will never be able to get out of our parents’ eyes. My parents are a little too involved in our lives.
We’ll always take my side when we’re in a fight. My husband really has a problem. As long as they are far away from their parents, they can live together in a trench. But being the only child in the family is really difficult.
I wish my parents had another child. Then I will pay less attention. Recently, it has become even more unbearable.
It would be stupid to ask what I should do. But if you have a wise idea to get out of this situation, please love.