I’m 25 years old and I’m a girl who makes herself at work.
Since my sophomore year, I’ve been working and meeting different people and problems, so I’m a bit different from my peers. Last year, I met a young man in his late 20s through work. From the first look he gave me, I knew he was attracted to me.
Then that evening, the guy asked me out on a date. The next day, my boyfriend called again and asked to meet. At that time, I said that I will meet in a few days when I have free time.
And so our story began. From the first day we met, he told me everything about himself, his family, and his childhood. I was a naive creature and believed in everything. In this way, one evening we were having a drink, and he suggested that I go to his house.
When I entered the house, I saw the beauty of the old man and the small children’s table and chairs. He replied that a child was born without a husband, and his parents were staring at him, and his friend brought him back.
When he added that my younger brother was in school and he took the child away, I had a feeling that he was hiding his wife and child, but I believed him. As our relationship deepened, I often went to their house.
One day, while I was cooking, I dug into his computer in the bedroom, and in the “family photos” folder, there were pictures of a beautiful woman and her 4-month-old ferret, as well as a picture of the three of them together.
Any woman who sees this will have something suspicious. And when I looked at the date of the pictures, it was the same time when we met for the first time, and the child looked different from him. I thought to myself that he wouldn’t go with me like this if he had a wife and such a small child, so I left him without asking.
I wasn’t that attracted to that guy, I just liked his care and attention, so I stayed with him. Soon he hung up the phone to correct me, and I broke up with him. After 2 months, I met the other guy at work.
We met and decided to just be good friends. And then we would go out and talk and talk on the phone. One day we were having a drink outside and it was very hot, but the guy told me a secret, I won’t tell anyone, I have a girlfriend.
He said, “I don’t want my daughter, but I will definitely take my daughter.” Then I said how do you know if my husband is the child on your PC? At this point, I was really angry with him knowing that I had unknowingly broken my rule of never going out with a human husband.
I wanted to ask the guy why he met me because he had a wife, but I just got up and left without saying anything. When you say yes to your girls, be careful what kind of guy you meet.
Once I know, I will meet the husband of a person like me and have a romantic relationship with a beautiful girl and a little girl without even knowing it! Right now I’m really feeling sorry for myself. What exactly should I do? Help me!