Hello readers of the site, I would like to ask your advice about something.
I am now 28 years old and I met my first love when I was only 16 years old. I fell in love until I was blind. It has been 10 years since then. My first love became my life, my life became the mother of 2 beautiful girls, my husband who did not treat me so badly, the years we worked together for the life that I love, there is nothing to regret when I look back.
The main problem that bothers me is that my husband has an affair with an 18-year-old girl, and after only meeting him twice, he calls her 10 or 20 times a day like a man in love. I talked to her on the phone.
What’s the point? He’s a married man with a wife and children, so he tries to talk as calmly as possible, but since we’ve only met him 2 or 3 times, he keeps calling me and asking me to come here and there. I don’t want to contact you. I just believed his word and said, well, there’s no need to get involved with married people.
As for the husband, it has nothing to do with it. I can’t keep things inside myself, so I feel relieved when I get it out in the open. Then I sat down with my husband and talked about my children and the life I’ve worked so hard for so far.
Since then, the husband’s condition has not been the same, he can’t even play with his bored children, he just stares at the TV.
The atmosphere in the family is cold and all this is really difficult. What should I do? I can’t go to the girl I love and I can’t let her go.
In fact, I am not economically dependent on my husband, I have my own job and a good salary.
One of my weaknesses as a woman is that I have too much family life and have no interest in anything other than the pub bar where I go home and go out after work hours.
Instead, I am interested in spending time with my two daughters, watching comedies or movies as a family, and going out for a good rest, maybe I find this situation too boring.
As for my husband, going out and drinking is voluntary, sometimes it’s a man’s problem. She is running because she is my daughter.
From the outside, our family is very nice, but now my husband’s mind is hard to settle. What changes will I make on my part, and how will this person’s heart change?