Hello all? Let’s greet this day. My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. This is a second life for both of us. I have a son and a daughter from my ex-husband. My husband has a daughter from his ex-wife, who is now 8 years old.
My husband’s daughter meets her mother occasionally, but we live together because she wants to stay with her father. He doesn’t have a very close relationship with his mother, he doesn’t miss her, he doesn’t even like to visit her. My husband has a very good relationship with our children. My children have a very good relationship with each other. In general, ours is a happy family. I have a pretty good relationship with my husband’s daughter.
I call her my daughter, just to make it clear to you, please understand that she is my husband’s daughter. But we have one seat. My husband’s daughter hates her father more than me. When my husband makes my children play fetch, the girls are happy to play with me. But if my husband sees me saying goodbye, talking to each other, and seeing me together, he will look at me with a bad look and sit down. After work, we would hang out together, watch movies, or kiss each other.
The other two children would come running to call me to sit down and watch a movie as a family, but the girl would sit alone expressing her displeasure. But when my husband and I are separated for a while, he plays with me, talks about everything like a child, laughs and has fun. We reconciled, we talked to each other a little bit, and as soon as the ashes were gone, we started to knock on the door and start praying.
After my husband went to work, he was nice to me. Well, if you come into our room at night and find me wearing a silk nightgown, he’ll just take out a t-shirt and tell you, wear this. My father often asks me if you sleep too hard or too much. Also, you are wearing such beautiful clothes and painting your nails to please your father. I will ask my father, mother and me, who is more loved.
I will ask you how many times your father told you that you are in love today, and then you will say that you are in love more times than you told me. My husband and I were laughing and angry. My husband explained it to his daughter in a comfortable manner and explained it in different ways, like a father’s love for his daughter is the same as the love for his wife. Well, I’ve seen it.
At one point I understand well, and then I start again. In this case, what should we do now, should you explain it to your daughter until she understands, or should you ignore it because she will understand when she grows up? Is this normal now? Or is it a girl with a lot of love? I thought it was funny at first, but now I’m starting to dislike it. He became wary of speaking freely.
Or can you explain to an 8-year-old girl deeply about love and why men and women want to be together? I really want to be close friends with my daughters and be the closest person when they grow up. I am afraid that because of such a strange thing, we will get into a bad relationship with the other stepmother and stepdaughter. Which is better? Has anyone been in this situation?