Hello. This is my first visit to this site. There are things that you can’t ask for advice from even your best friend, so I’m asking for your help. Please tell me what to do.
I live with my 27-year-old husband and daughter. My daughter is going to school. I myself am now 6 months pregnant. There were a lot of seats between us before, and I think I took them all. We have been living together for 7 years, doing everything for the sake of our daughter. I was a very proud and proud child, so it was my fault that there was a seat in the house.
But in the last one year, the three of us lived very happily. My husband was amazingly helpful, he would ask me for everything he had done before, and our family would be filled with laughter when he came home from work. After coming home from work, we cook together and kiss each other. In fact, I was so in love with him that I forgot all about him. In a young family, the first few years are stressful.
I had heard that families become stronger if they survive that period, so I personally thought that my family was able to overcome that difficult time. When I was lucky, it was resolved that we don’t have any money problems. Now there is nothing wrong. Before, I didn’t trust my husband, and I always looked at him to see if he was in a relationship, but when I got older, I started to trust him.
When I realized that I had run away, I was very confused about what to do. My parents weren’t very nice, so I used to be very sad, so I was afraid that it would be like that. However, my husband promised that he would never let me down again, and I decided to have a baby. But… It’s not the same lately. I can’t help but look at my sleeping brother.
Little by little, the person who used to hold my hand and care for me was disappearing little by little. I was patiently waiting to believe him, but it only got worse. I checked my husband’s phone at night and it was an unknown number. I didn’t care at first. That number again. Again… Finally, I began to watch. After watching him closely for almost 3 months, when I asked him what the number was, he said he didn’t know.
All of a sudden, my behavior changed. After talking a lot, I didn’t know what to do, but when I got angry, I just couldn’t hide it. They say that I am just a 10-year-old student. They don’t say their names. It was just a little bit. I pretended to know because it was on purpose… But the name I said was a lie. That woman is younger than him. And it is clear that they had an unusual relationship.
But I can’t help feeling sorry for my husband who treated me like this when I was upset. I feel sorry for the child in the womb. I’m sorry to think that you’re going to make me feel like this without being a human being. For almost 10 days, I went without food and drink like a crazy person, and my husband said that there is no connection, no need to doubt. If it’s an ordinary friend with no connection, he won’t say anything to ask why he’s hiding.
Sometimes I even thought that I would stop taking the baby out. I couldn’t come to terms with the fact that everything I thought was my happiness was really just a fantasy. Or maybe I just can’t believe it. Why are you hiding from me if you are just a friend? I wanted to talk to that girl myself, but knowing that her wife is nothing to her husband, I thought that she would take pity on me and laugh at me. Please forgive me. What should I do?