Hello, it’s been a long time since I read this site. Well, I would like you to share your advice from your husbands and wives on how to deal with such a situation and how you overcame it. You can’t even talk about it with your friends, about the eternal topic of wilting.
I am 27 now, I have a professional husband and a beautiful daughter. We have been living together for 4 years. First, let me introduce myself a little. My guiding principle was to do everything in the right order in order to be satisfied without any regrets. Therefore, since I was in the 10th year, everything was OK with a satisfied warrior.
My family life was very strict, so I met a lot of guys and had a relationship. I’m not very handsome, but I’m the kind of woman that attracts guys, but he’s not important to me. You and your husband followed the same principle as a young couple.
I also dedicate everything to my family to be a good mother, a good wife and a good employee. We have two apartments and a car. When I met my husband, I used to tell young men who wanted to meet me to say goodbye.
In terms of sex, I always wanted to dominate my husband, I was interested in trying new things, but I was always afraid that this would cause a crack. But my daughter and I seemed to be having a lot of fun, and my husband changed his behavior and went out for one night.
After 5 months, I found out for sure that my husband was having an affair with his co-worker’s girlfriend. I now regret reading those awful messages. Instead, if I had heard from someone that it was okay, and if he had not cheated on me for so long, 5 months, I would have overcome all this.
I usually go at lunch time. When I found out, all my desires, dreams, aspirations, and goals seemed to disappear without leaving anything. I decided to get a divorce, but my husband died, and I got over it.
Now our life seems to be back to normal, but I’m still struggling with my life. My husband said that he will never do it again, but I don’t believe him. What I’m thinking about now is divorce, but I can’t because I know the consequences. How can I forget, or wives can’t bear to forget?
For my daughter’s sake and for my family’s sake, I’m going to pretend I’m gone. Please share your experience? I thought that such a situation would happen someday, but I didn’t know that it would be so scary.
Maybe it’s because of my point of view that I can’t understand. Well, thank you for reading my long letter. It won’t work if you don’t drink it like that.