First of all, I would like to say hello to you who are reading my article, and please help me by sharing your opinion and experience.
I started dating a guy more than 10 months ago. I used to communicate with his friend through text messages. However, it’s been more than a month since we met. I didn’t even date that guy. Because my current boyfriend was attracted to me for some reason.
He talks to me only as a friend, and because he has a house nearby, we go together. However, sometimes they made fun of me and made me feel like they were not treating me as a woman, so out of frustration, I started dating a boy from my school. That’s why I wanted to show it to my friend.
Even though I was in a relationship with another guy, my feelings for him only deepened. Then one day, she suddenly broke up with her ex-boyfriend and told this to her lover. He expressed his love for me and soon we started having sex.
It seemed to me that he was falling in love with her even more because he was my boyfriend. However, there were frequent arguments between the two of us over trivial matters. Even now…He accused me of dating several guys in the past, and I started acting like I was cheating on him.
Always be kind to anyone. When you try to have sex with me when you don’t want to, you don’t like it. Because he does this, even if he doesn’t want to, when he wants to have sex, he makes me believe that he’s only having sex with me.
Then he made a big deal out of even a small thing, and started blaming me when it was his fault. Since I was a quiet child since childhood, I could not respond to all his actions, I just gave up. However, I told him yesterday that I had decided to break up, as I have done with someone for many years.
Now I really have a problem. My heart is full of pain, I have a lot of things in my chest…I don’t want to kill him, but I also don’t want to kill my personality. I may be too self-absorbed. Or it could be that he is still caring for his mother and does not like her aggressive behavior.
Anyway, if he came to me right now, I feel like I would give him up right away. If I give it up, I will be hurt by his aggressive behavior again.
If you, dear reader, have faced such a situation of love like mine and managed to overcome it, I would like to ask you from the bottom of my heart to give me some advice and help me break up because of this situation.