Hi, I’m a 27-year-old woman looking for a simple life. She has been living with her boyfriend for 4 years now. I have a family, a home, a good job, a loving fiance, and almost everything.
But the main reason is that my heart is not satisfied with the current relationship. My fiance does not work, he is 30 years old now, but he does not work, he is not interested in working, he did not work for 3 years and 6 months of the 4 years he was with me, he used to talk to me and chase after me for a while. It is interesting to sit.
On top of that, he always looks at me as I work hard to take care of my family. He is an easy-going person who doesn’t care about anything other than that. I’m not a nice person either, I take out my stress from work on this person. Then I drove for a long time, trying not to pay attention to the fact that the wheels matched each other.
But many people say and argue that this relationship is not good. My family tells me that if a man of this age does not find his position, there is no hope, so don’t waste anyone’s time and think about the next seat. I actually have a love, I almost ran after him and wanted to have a family of my own, my love, but as a result of trying to change this person and make him responsible in my life, I feel like a strange person, I don’t trust this person. done
I think that the advice I get from my family and friends is all on my side, so I think it might not be the right advice. But after all these arguments, threats, and all the verbal abuse and helpless laziness, it seems that I will have to make a decision to divorce. This time, I understand that I have to separate myself and that person from this hopeless relationship.
In the past, I had broken up and got back together many times, but the reason I couldn’t come to a final decision was that I had no one to compare to, and even after breaking up, we both separated for a while because we didn’t have anyone else. But now I have someone to look up to. Last fall, you met a nice man at work.
Older, wise, energetic, good husband, good father, great leader. Ever since you met that man, you secretly dreamed of being with a man like that. In the end, my decision is to have the courage to divorce?
But I’m not that young either, there’s no next person, should I wait a few more years to get to know someone new? Or should I marry her and take her child out and wait for her to fix it? I am the only breadwinner in my family and I also pay the bills, so it is difficult to have a child when my back is hopeless.