I have been living with my husband for 6 or 7 years. There is no misunderstanding between the two of us, we understand and respect each other, we can discuss and resolve something, and I think that we are living a good life by choosing the right person. My little baby was born recently. I can say that the three of us are the happiest family together. But one problem is the mother-in-law.
My husband is the son of a well-to-do family, but I am the daughter of a family that does not eat or sleep. When we first met and started dating, I didn’t know about their family possibilities, and I wasn’t even interested. What a beautiful mother to listen to the mother talking to her son on the phone from time to time. I felt that I understood and supported my son and respected him very much.
We spent our student years in rented accommodation. They used to pay for the house and meat and soup, and ours also gave meat and soup, but we didn’t need to pay for the house. That’s why I respected him and went to his house in the summer to help him a lot.
My in-laws were very good to me. And after we graduated from university, we had a beautiful daughter, and we bought a place for both of us. Well, that’s where things changed. I took care of my baby and my husband went to work at home. The in-laws are still helping by providing meat and soup.
But my in-laws, who are busy with their own lives, always call me, what are you doing now? He knows everything we have, bring what you have, replace it, and even show you where to place your furniture in the house.
When you see my daughter, change her pants, take the baby, breastfeed the baby, put on these clothes and decide everything for me, it’s like I don’t have my own head. .
Well, I told my husband who really couldn’t stand it. Of course, I didn’t want to separate my family and I didn’t want my husband to be separated from his parents. I agreed because I chose you to live with you, not with your mother. I can’t do it with words, but my husband says that he wants to enjoy what he has earned and use it as he pleases.
Well, since then, my husband and mother-in-law have become very angry. When my husband is angry, he told me not to get involved in his life, but did he teach me to tell you that when he is angry with his wife, do you not need money? My mother-in-law wants to keep her as her slave if she takes it from her directly, but I am very afraid that if I stay away from her and do not see her goods, I will have no life at all.
When he comes in, what will he say now? What if he does this? What if he just bangs on the door and gets nervous. He scolds people to such a degree. It’s like standing alone in the middle of a lot of cameras, and they call and talk straight away without telling the truth.
But my mother-in-law calls me and says, “Where are you?” I have a baby and a baby, so I can’t even walk around the yard. I told my family, but I can’t worry about the old people, I just told everything to my husband and opened up.
On the other hand, my husband is far away due to work, I don’t know what my real mother-in-law is talking about. My husband who understands me and supports me is completely different. . What should I do now?